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− | + | Boarding School Abuse denotes a wide-range of criminal and lurid actions often committed on students by school faculty members, administrators or staff involving sexual assault of varying degrees. [https://www.meneolawgroup.com/personal-injury/boarding-school-abuse/statute-of-limitations choate abuse] can be a one-time, non-consensual abuse or it can include many assaults during an continuing interaction. For example, an continuing intimate encounter with a student, formed by the predatory actions of a faculty member, school administrator or employee and whether leading to physical agreed sex acts or not, is a form of abuse.<br /><br />Student on student sexual assault is another form of abuse, that may be compounded by the school’s failure to provide a safe environment that enabled the assault to happen. Inside the school population are students of varying ages, maturity and experiences. Younger students may be exposed to the predatory behavior of older, more experienced students. Their actions, along with peer-pressure applied on both the predator and the targeted victim, could lead to varying types of abuse including sexual assault of varying degrees.<br /><br />In all reported Boarding School Abuse matters, a school administration’s megligence to completely, immediately report the assault to law enforcement and other authorities, or its further negligence to investigate, address and deal completely with the situation increases the effects on the abuse survivor, the school community and potentially others. Recent Boarding School Abuse cases reported in the media exemplify these failures, including times where the attacker quietly leaves the school only to assume employment elsewhere in a school environment. <br /><br />Predatory Behavior<br />Most private schools pride themselves on their small, personal communities within a well-defined and safe campus. In that environment, faculty, administrators and staff are frequently much closer and familiar with students than might be expected in a non-boarding school setting. This may provide both opportunity and cover to the possible abuser and for the predatory behavior.<br /><br />In some situations, the attacker could be a likeable and popular person, generally thought to be a positive addition to the school community. A targeted student may feel flattered that a well-liked superior in the school community is expressing special interest in him or her. Because of this popularity and involvement into the school community, attack accusations against these attackers are often met with doubt, non-belief, and resistance by the community. Frequesntly, abusers have distance and morality problems which turn into unusually friendly relationships with students that are past what are normally expected. This creates a predatory pathway and opportunity for the attack.<br /><br />Most abusers, to differing amounts, employ predatory actions that are generally referred to as “grooming,” or targeting a potential abuse victim. Below is a compilation of grooming methods exhibited by predators that are in a position of authority in relation to the subordinate student.<br /><br />Grooming<br />Grooming is a major part of a predator’s ploy. In a boarding school setting, a predator usually works closely with small amounts of students, knowing each student’s needs and weaknesses. Once a victim is located and selected, these vulnerabilities – like loneliness, low self-esteem, emotional neediness, or attention seeking behavior, can be systematically leveraged in the following manners:<br /><br />Trust<br /><br />A predator may initially work to gain the student’s trust. This step is the most difficult to realize as private school communities are often tight-knit and personal interaction is commonplace. Here, the attacker is usually part of a group of staff who are genuinely interested in the student’s wellbeing and success at the school.<br />Reliance <br />As a predator establishes a trusting relationship with the potential student-victim, the student may begin to count on more and more on the predator for whatever need it is that the predator is exploiting and fulfilling. The student will spend more time with the predator, feeling more comfortable with the relationship. Additionally to attention and affection, the possible victim may receive gifts from the predator, which may include valuable, presents such as the guarantee of high grades, or a university recommendation letter. The reliance step is mainly where the predatory behavior is distinguishable from well-meaning collegial behavior.<br /><br />Isolation <br /><br />While the grooming progresses, the predator may work to isolate the student. At school, this might mean after-hour meetings, tutoring sessions, encounters in the dormitory , one-on-one athletic practice sessions, or other such circumstances.<br />Sexualization<br />The predator will begin to desensitize the possible victim from reacting negatively to touching, caressing and other behaviors which lead to sexual interaction. This could begin with breaching the physical-touch barrier, or speaking, with suggestive messages to determine the victim’s reaction to the progression. This could increase until the relationship advances to one of a physical, sexual nature.<br />Maintenance<br />As the sexual relationship is created, the predator may try to maintain control over the victim and the continuing abuse. The predator will probably seek to manipulate the victim by inducing feelings of guilt, or possibly threats, or employ the opposite tactic of continuing to make the victim feel special and desired. In any event, the predator may continue to exploit the victim with means available to maintain the immoral physical relationship.<br /><br />Legacy on Abuse Victims<br /><br />While the grooming escalates as intended by the predator, the victim, being made to feel special, will probably respond positively to the actions. The predator, through these well-thought-out and executed grooming behaviors and activities, tries to re-calibrate and remove the moral boundaries of the victim. Since the abuse survivor participated in the re-calibration, he often has deep feelings of guilt, initially blaming himself for the incident and hesitant to report it.<br /><br />Furthermore, after the abuse has been reported, victims of private school abuse are frequently exposed to discreet social pressure and intimidation, such as being bullied, alienation from their peers, or revenge from teachers. Especially at private schools, where education is rigorous, competition can be intense and social circles small, survivors of abuse may be rapidly isolated and socially persecuted. Exposed to those reactions, many boarding school abuse victims that have reported the abuse leave school. Others, fighting with the prospect of the isolation and social persecution, report the abuse a while later. In either case, the impact can be severe and life-altering.<br /><br />Some abuse survivors suffer from long-term effects of the abuse including depression, anxiety, ptsd, low self-esteem, suicidal thoughts, substance abuse, restless sleeping and eating patterns, and trouble establishing and keeping healthy relationships. Individualized therapy and support groups can assist victims get past these effects.<br /><br />Legally, a survivor of boarding school abuse could receive financial compensation from the predator and more frequently, from the school for its failure to protect the student from the abuse, as well as failures or negligence in its method of reviewing and responding to the victim’s report of the abuse. If you are a survivor of boarding school abuse and would like to confidentially discuss your story and learn of your legal options at no cost or obligation, we are ready to speak with you. It is important for a victim to remember that experiencing assault is not your fault. The attorneys at Meneo Law Group are committed to bringing those who committed the the abuse to justice.<br /> |
Latest revision as of 18:53, 2 June 2020
Boarding School Abuse denotes a wide-range of criminal and lurid actions often committed on students by school faculty members, administrators or staff involving sexual assault of varying degrees. choate abuse can be a one-time, non-consensual abuse or it can include many assaults during an continuing interaction. For example, an continuing intimate encounter with a student, formed by the predatory actions of a faculty member, school administrator or employee and whether leading to physical agreed sex acts or not, is a form of abuse.
Student on student sexual assault is another form of abuse, that may be compounded by the school’s failure to provide a safe environment that enabled the assault to happen. Inside the school population are students of varying ages, maturity and experiences. Younger students may be exposed to the predatory behavior of older, more experienced students. Their actions, along with peer-pressure applied on both the predator and the targeted victim, could lead to varying types of abuse including sexual assault of varying degrees.
In all reported Boarding School Abuse matters, a school administration’s megligence to completely, immediately report the assault to law enforcement and other authorities, or its further negligence to investigate, address and deal completely with the situation increases the effects on the abuse survivor, the school community and potentially others. Recent Boarding School Abuse cases reported in the media exemplify these failures, including times where the attacker quietly leaves the school only to assume employment elsewhere in a school environment.
Predatory Behavior
Most private schools pride themselves on their small, personal communities within a well-defined and safe campus. In that environment, faculty, administrators and staff are frequently much closer and familiar with students than might be expected in a non-boarding school setting. This may provide both opportunity and cover to the possible abuser and for the predatory behavior.
In some situations, the attacker could be a likeable and popular person, generally thought to be a positive addition to the school community. A targeted student may feel flattered that a well-liked superior in the school community is expressing special interest in him or her. Because of this popularity and involvement into the school community, attack accusations against these attackers are often met with doubt, non-belief, and resistance by the community. Frequesntly, abusers have distance and morality problems which turn into unusually friendly relationships with students that are past what are normally expected. This creates a predatory pathway and opportunity for the attack.
Most abusers, to differing amounts, employ predatory actions that are generally referred to as “grooming,” or targeting a potential abuse victim. Below is a compilation of grooming methods exhibited by predators that are in a position of authority in relation to the subordinate student.
Grooming
Grooming is a major part of a predator’s ploy. In a boarding school setting, a predator usually works closely with small amounts of students, knowing each student’s needs and weaknesses. Once a victim is located and selected, these vulnerabilities – like loneliness, low self-esteem, emotional neediness, or attention seeking behavior, can be systematically leveraged in the following manners:
Trust
A predator may initially work to gain the student’s trust. This step is the most difficult to realize as private school communities are often tight-knit and personal interaction is commonplace. Here, the attacker is usually part of a group of staff who are genuinely interested in the student’s wellbeing and success at the school.
Reliance
As a predator establishes a trusting relationship with the potential student-victim, the student may begin to count on more and more on the predator for whatever need it is that the predator is exploiting and fulfilling. The student will spend more time with the predator, feeling more comfortable with the relationship. Additionally to attention and affection, the possible victim may receive gifts from the predator, which may include valuable, presents such as the guarantee of high grades, or a university recommendation letter. The reliance step is mainly where the predatory behavior is distinguishable from well-meaning collegial behavior.
Isolation
While the grooming progresses, the predator may work to isolate the student. At school, this might mean after-hour meetings, tutoring sessions, encounters in the dormitory , one-on-one athletic practice sessions, or other such circumstances.
Sexualization
The predator will begin to desensitize the possible victim from reacting negatively to touching, caressing and other behaviors which lead to sexual interaction. This could begin with breaching the physical-touch barrier, or speaking, with suggestive messages to determine the victim’s reaction to the progression. This could increase until the relationship advances to one of a physical, sexual nature.
Maintenance
As the sexual relationship is created, the predator may try to maintain control over the victim and the continuing abuse. The predator will probably seek to manipulate the victim by inducing feelings of guilt, or possibly threats, or employ the opposite tactic of continuing to make the victim feel special and desired. In any event, the predator may continue to exploit the victim with means available to maintain the immoral physical relationship.
Legacy on Abuse Victims
While the grooming escalates as intended by the predator, the victim, being made to feel special, will probably respond positively to the actions. The predator, through these well-thought-out and executed grooming behaviors and activities, tries to re-calibrate and remove the moral boundaries of the victim. Since the abuse survivor participated in the re-calibration, he often has deep feelings of guilt, initially blaming himself for the incident and hesitant to report it.
Furthermore, after the abuse has been reported, victims of private school abuse are frequently exposed to discreet social pressure and intimidation, such as being bullied, alienation from their peers, or revenge from teachers. Especially at private schools, where education is rigorous, competition can be intense and social circles small, survivors of abuse may be rapidly isolated and socially persecuted. Exposed to those reactions, many boarding school abuse victims that have reported the abuse leave school. Others, fighting with the prospect of the isolation and social persecution, report the abuse a while later. In either case, the impact can be severe and life-altering.
Some abuse survivors suffer from long-term effects of the abuse including depression, anxiety, ptsd, low self-esteem, suicidal thoughts, substance abuse, restless sleeping and eating patterns, and trouble establishing and keeping healthy relationships. Individualized therapy and support groups can assist victims get past these effects.
Legally, a survivor of boarding school abuse could receive financial compensation from the predator and more frequently, from the school for its failure to protect the student from the abuse, as well as failures or negligence in its method of reviewing and responding to the victim’s report of the abuse. If you are a survivor of boarding school abuse and would like to confidentially discuss your story and learn of your legal options at no cost or obligation, we are ready to speak with you. It is important for a victim to remember that experiencing assault is not your fault. The attorneys at Meneo Law Group are committed to bringing those who committed the the abuse to justice.